people never have time. people make time. time is a completely human construct. anyone who tells you ‘i just don’t have the time’ is really telling you, ‘i just don’t care to make the time.’
at core, when admitted, people never have time for the things they don’t want to do, for the things that are uncomfortable, for the things that are hard, painful, or push their boundaries beyond the norm.
they always make time for the things that they perceive do not do those things. therefore, whenever you find yourself in a position where someone consistently will not make time for you, realize that the reason is that something about or of you or your situation, circumstance, or request(s) are considered as one of the previous.
the only question then is:
why?