> this is quite stunning to see that this is how you read the events of the
> last two days-and your estimation of me.
> I do not contain a malignant distrust that makes healthy relations
> impossible.I have a vast array of healthy relationship that affirm this
> daily.
> That you have been unwilling to hear and see me fully and that you would
> draw a comparison between the hate crimes and systemic discrimination faced
> by queers with your hurt feelings and then claim that you have done nothing
> to merit my taking issue with you is boggling.
> I NEVER asserted that you had to assume my perspective-all i did was point
> out that because our perspectives were at irreconcilable odds (and they
> are) and that i would not have either of us forsake our integrity that we
> readjust things.this erupted then into this discord.a discord in which you
> shared in the building of yet engage in no claim of accountability or
> responsibility for.This has been hurtful from you to me as much as it has
> been from me to you.i was not looking for a fight but nor shall i ever
> shrink from one.you characterize me as a hypocrite and yet you end with
> statement of goodwill after characterizing me as malignant
> mistrustful,incapable of healthy relations, and full of acid.and yet claim
> you would never say or do anything to hurt me.you may wish to examine the
> mindfulness you extol as virtue and see if you are applying it fully.in the
> end i think about all we shall agree on is that we are not right for each
> other.and that this where our communications should end.
> i had wished that we could reach a peaceful accord as we went our separate
> ways and that was why i opened this topic.I wanted to be honest about why i
> was reconsidering things in the hopes of a dialogue to a friendship-and then
> this mess.I have tried to reconcile and gotten conflict instead.deepest
> regrets
> be well.
You honestly do not see the parallels, do you? I accept you are unable
to do more than blame me and castigate “my view” of things (this being
the core of the pattern in all manifestations thereof) and that you
are wholly blind to how that both demonstrates the point and proves
the choice to find ending both appropriate and wise.
Regrets indeed.
Please do not write me further or if you insist, understand there will
be no further reply.