An open letter to The United States Senate, in particular to those currently serving in the capacity of adjudication in the matter of potential Supreme Court Justice, Honorable Brett Kavanaugh: It is with some quiet wonderment that I witness this, the latest skirmish within the halls of what is supposed to be our most humble and vociferous protectors, stewards, and leaders. It occurs to me that our country has fallen entirely into conflict and disarray; no more so is this obvious than in watching actual, live footage of an event intended to vet, vouch, and validate a candidate for one […]
Ready for Autumn
Now that the house is lost and the realities of my health are settling in, I find I’m actually glad to have the space in which to just… breathe. I’m so proud of J and how well he’s held up during everything that I don’t quite know how best to say it… I’ll just say it the way I said it to him, “You are my real life hero; the only person who is there for me exactly the same as I am for you.” It’s a really good feeling to have that in life. I spent quite some time […]
Antiques: A requisite statement for you, dear reader… (find an appraiser)
If you’re reading this, thank you for stopping by… I appreciate that my article was at all helpful to you! That said – I find that I have a need to issue a firm (but empathetic) statement regarding requests for authentication of items that occasionally show up in my in-box: I am NOT a licensed appraisal professional and, should I choose to reply to you, I am NOT giving you a professional assessment of value or originality. Should I respond, I am offering ONLY my personal OPINION as an AMATEUR design enthusiast and particular admirer of the design, work, and […]
The Type II Shuffle (an update)
Figuring out my carbohydrate tolerance was an important part of regaining focus and control – every benefit outlined in the below clip is accurate in my personal experience; unfortunately, most insurance seems to want to insist upon 2 level checks a day if you’re “well managed”. (As if getting there and staying there doesn’t require a minimum of 4 to 6 tests a day, with spikes to the routine if/when new foods are introduced to the diet). I find it ironic that in this day of “big data” and all swirling thereabouts, even in the insurance industry, no one has […]
The act, penultimate, rendered
She never made the time because she thought she had all the time. It never occurred to her that every moment is a gift, or that none are permanent or even guaranteed. It’s not her fault. Life happens. You get busy. You choose what is closest or easiest, what is fastest and less likely to introduce any unexpected factors that might disrupt well laid and considered plans. But there is a flawed premise sitting under all of that; it is that one could ever hope to calculate all the variables to a high confidence of relevancy… most humans, frequently myself […]
The New Year’s Exhalation
At the end, it doesn’t matter where first cause is found, who is to blame, or even why it happened. It matters only that I love you, and I have tried to get close enough to demonstrate that love for nearly two decades, without much success. It is maddening that you insist I have not tried when I can point to so many attempts, rejected and ignored. It is hurtful that you persist in false narrative when even a cursory review reveals that what is being claimed is impossible given the routines and circumstances of the time – all of […]
April Showers
In the end, it took realizing that not only did she not want me involved, it never so much as occurred to her that I would want to be involved. And, sadly, regardless my own view on things and how boggled I am that she could ever think I would not want to be, that must be it. I say ‘must be’ because the alternative is still too tender to more than nod at from a distance. She will be 30 this year. I love her and am so very proud of her… I accept that this is the reality […]
This Swampy River (a riff)
Is this Trump’s[1] effort to influence the return of manufacturing to the states?
GLOW S02E04 – Callback to truth
I finally gave in and watched this show; stars, I’m so glad I did.
By their powers combined…
When the election of 2016 was complete, I turned to my husband and said, “You watch; by the end of this guy’s tenure, we’ll either be a dictatorship or the next and newest third-world country.”